Unlocking the Power of Self-Worth in Romantic Relationships

GRIPE OF THE DAY

On today’s issue, we’d be talking about;

  • The concept of Self-worth

  • Why it’s important in romantic relationships

  • How to cultivate it

Let’s begin!!!

THE BREAKDOWN

Know your worth and then add a tax to it

A weird quote I saw on the interwebs

I don’t know why this quote sticks out like a sore thumb among all the self-worth quotes I’ve seen.

There’s always so much talk about self-worth. Most of the time, it’s usually very unrealistic standards on material things.

There is always so much talk about self-worth and finding your self-worth. But no one tells you what to do or how to get it. It’s funny…

People treat self-worth similarly to talents/gifts.

When you are born, somewhere along the line, you are told, “Oh, by the way, you have talents/gifts that can make you live the life of your dreams, so make sure you use them. But the catch is, I’m not going to tell you what those talents are or how you are supposed to use them to make you live the life of your dreams. You’re just going to have to figure that part out for yourself.

Luckily, I’ve got self-worth on lock.

Merriam-Webster defines self-worth as a feeling one experiences that they are a good person who deserves to be treated with respect. It is an internal sense of being good and worthy enough of love and belonging from others.

Self-worth makes you like yourself and accept that you are worthy of love, joy, peace and all the good things in life.

In romantic relationships, feeling good about yourself is super important. It helps you set boundaries, respect each other, stay emotionally strong, and connect meaningfully.

When you know your worth, you can talk about your needs, keep your independence, and handle problems without losing confidence. Plus, feeling good about yourself makes you attractive to your partner and keeps the relationship healthy and happy.

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YOUR PLAYBOOK

Step 1: Figure Out What You Want
Take a moment to think about what you want in a relationship. Think about what makes you happy and what's important to you.

Step 2: Know the Difference Between Wants and Needs
Understand the difference between what you want and what you need. Wants are things you might like but aren't essential. Needs are the important things that make a relationship work, like respect and communication.

Step 3: Speak Up About What You Need
Don't be afraid to tell your romantic partner what you need from them. It's important to have open and honest conversations about your needs and wants in your relationship.

Step 4: Don't Be Afraid to Walk Away
If your relationship isn't making you happy or meeting your needs, it's okay to leave. You deserve to be with someone who respects you and makes you happy.

Step 5: Be Happy on Your Own
Focus on making yourself happy before worrying about being in a relationship. Take time to do things you enjoy and be okay with being single.

Step 6: Keep Growing
Keep learning and growing as a person. Set goals for yourself and work towards them. Personal growth will help you feel more confident and fulfilled in life.

COMMUNITY PERKS

As a valued community member, I can assist you in effortlessly attracting your ideal romantic partner and nurturing a satisfying relationship through my simple 3-step method and services;

1. Through the Love Navigator program. It is a tailored coaching program to help you confidently navigate the dating scene. This program will teach you the art of vetting potential romantic partners and mastering the skills to become irresistible to your ideal match. You can express your interest in embarking on this transformative journey here.
You can also opt-in for personalized one-off coaching sessions with me to tackle your romantic relationship challenges and get your personalised roadmap for relationship success.

2. Through this FREE email newsletter, my YouTube channel, and various social media platforms I have an account with, I consistently share the unspoken rules, principles and secrets that guide healthy romantic relationships.
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3. Through my digital product offerings. They are the tools you need to conquer any obstacle that may arise to threaten your relationship's harmony.

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